The drama the drama these got damn baby mamas. Mannn, They never let go. No matter how long they haven't been with their child's father they will still create hell for the new chick he's dealing with. Whyyyyy??? Don't fret because it baffles us all. I think we have all been with a guy who has a child and an annoying ass baby mama. No matter how nice you try to be towards her and their seed she gives your man a hard time. How many times have you had to stay home while he goes to pick the child up? How many stares of death have you been given when she sees you? Yet & still we keep our peace....just so you wouldn't be the reason he ends up not being able to see his child. Now. I'm a baby mama. I've never been the typical one though. So let me talk my shit. The average baby mama didn't have that baby because she doesn't believe in abortions. She had that baby because she felt like whatever he has is what she's trying to get for the rest of her life. And you are now ruining her happily ever after. No matter how evident it is he has moved on 9 times out of 10 he's still soothing her to stay off of child support..no matter what that soothing may entail.
Now I can't say that all men with children are dealing with their baby mama, but don't be a fool either. If she doesn't want to let him go & he wants to continue maintaining the peace aka "just ignore her baby" there is no way in the hell your relationship will last. All women have a little bit of crazy in them but baby mamas have a different kind of crazy. They have that stalk your entire life, slash your tires, & do WHATEVER it takes to keep their family intact kind of crazy. I also want to say. They're all not acting crazy for no reason. You have to pay close attention to the details of their relationship. Be mindful & considerate of the fact that he has to maintain a relationship with the mother of his child. How close is too close? Well if he claims he doesn't want her to know about you or claims that you can't meet their child after a substantial amount of time then cut his ass off. That means that he's not being direct about her place in his life. Don't fall for the whole "she know I don't want to be with her" hoopla. It's never that apparent. A short message to you crazy baby mamas. You're only hurting your child by keeping them away from their father because of the differences between the two of you. Every child deserves 2 parents..you could never take the place of the father..just double the mother. Since its not every day that men want to be a part of their child's life don't make your child suffer because you don't know when to let go or how to handle your emotions.
