Women,Women,Women: 7 Things Women Want Us Men To Know

Date Night. If you're planning on taking a woman on a date. Please plan everything. Don't keep asking us "what do you want to do" its annoying as hell & it's just something sexy about a man who knows how to be in control without being a jerk.

Do it & Die. I like to call this the long walk home process. This is typically when a woman says either "go ahead", "I don't care what you do" or the infamous "if that's what you want to do" All of these are damn lies. The more nonchalant it appears the risk of you doing it is even more dangerous. Women hate having to tell a "man" what he should or shouldn't be doing constantly. Use your own judgement & remember if she ever says "if that's what you want to do" and says your first name at the end instead of "baby" or any other pet name she usually calls you. Do it & Die.

When you're out without us, don't have too much fun. Now this may come as no shock, but when we say "have fun baby" when you're going out we want you to have fun but not "come home talking about how much fun you had all week"..kind of fun. Lol..no seriously.

Every woman is not insecure. We just know what some men/women are capable of. It's so annoying to hear men say "you're being insecure" when being approached about something that's bothering us. Stop, listen, think, react, then compromise. Soothe our worries with kind words. Always remember 'There's a special place in hell for men who convince women their intuition is insecurity to protect their duplicity'

Hey boo. You know that little game you played to get us & our attention? We didn't forget. Please don't use these tactics on social networks & think you're low. We see you & ain't nothing worst than seeing your man in another chick's instagram comments.

Be consistent.  As the relationship grows certain things get taken for granted. Don't forget the little things. You would be surprised what a "good morning beautiful" text would do to your queen's day. Encourage us daily & be there to support us in any way possible. We don't want perfect we just want someone who is worth overlooking their flaws. Try not to "forget" because it only takes that one time for someone else to remember.

Explore her sexually. Keep the sex spontaneous. Kisses don't just go on the lips..put a finger here or there. Lick there and everywhere.Your job is to find out what we don't know we need, but do need. Then make sure we know you're the only person who has it.

Spring Flings Amongst Other Things

Ladies, warm weather has now approached us, also known as allergy & men acting up season. So don't be surprised if you feel single in a few days.

Although, chicks do cheat as well, guys are more prone to cheating in the spring/summer because they’re more likely to stray in general.  What did summertime mean when we were kids? No school, lots of freedom & fun. This same attitude carries over into our adulthood & make us feel like the usual rules doesn't apply.

Go ahead & admit to yourself. Relationships takes the most "breaks" during the summer. When the temperature goes up..clothes come off. Guys see chicks in maxi dresses, booty shorts & bathing suits and lose their damn minds.

Please take into consideration I can't speak for the entire male population but I can say that even if you can't admit to me, you should admit to yourself that things can change between the two of you. So I've taken the liberty of coming up with a few tips..

1.) Stay in the gym. Keep your outter appearance together at all times not just for him but for you. It'll make you feel better about yourself.
2.) Don't try to prevent him from going out..instead you go have some fun too.
3.)  Don't stalk his life trying to keep him from having fun or cheating. Keep yourself busy & have him wondering what you're doing as well.

4.)Make sure he sets aside time for you. I know how busy the summer can get, but make sure he knows without you telling him that you need boo time.

I'm hoping this helps out the clueless & confirms what the vets already knows. Until next time..Keep your ears & eyes open & your freakum dress close by